I've noticed lately that people are becoming more and more focused on their outward appearance. It's not just their physical qualities they are concerned with. It's also whether or not they are "siding" with the right team or perhaps saying something that might lead someone else to think they might like something that the other doesn't. I have seen people wanting to take a stand against something but refusing to do so because a few of their friends might get upset with them. We have become a society that puts so much emphasis on "fitting in".
I've come to realize that I don't "fit in" too well in some places. I don't straddle the fence. I don't bite my tongue. I see things in black and white. Either you are in or you are out. None of that wishy-washy mumbo jumbo. Sometimes I wonder if that might be a bad thing. There is only One that I am trying to please, and that is our Father.
Unfortunately, there will not be a day before our Savior returns that we will ALL look past each others' outward appearance. We will continue to be put into "classes" based on how much money we make, what kind of cars we drive, and what earthly worth we have. We will continue to be looked at as either a beautiful one or as not. However, we do not have to give in to those expectations that are not of God. Forsake the requirements of men to conform and give in to the requirements of God to go forth.
I have been following author Anne Rice's choice to "quit" Christianity. Roughly summing the entire debate up, she has basically decided that she doesn't want to be included in a class of people that call themselves Christians but refuse to act like Christ would have them to act. On one hand, I can understand the point that she is trying to make. However, she goes on to agree with things that I do not believe that Christ would have us to agree with. It is discouraging to see people use Christianity as a title instead of a way of life. Christianity has become popular again in many places. People use it as a way to gain business, gain friends, and gain favor in the eyes of the community. Being a Christian isn't about popularity at all. Being a Christian is a big responsibility. I believe that, as Christians, we are charged with going forth and telling all nations about Christ. As Christians, we can't be comfortable merely surrounded by four walls on Sundays and Wednesdays. It's about getting out there and serving our Father and building His kingdom. We can't do that by being still. I'm not planning on quitting being a Christian. Christ is my Savior and I am very proud to be called one of His.
It bothers me when I see all of these young girls so concerned with their size or their looks. I pray that I am raising sons who can reassure young ladies that what truly matters is Who is in their hearts. Parents, spend the time now with your daughters and teach them to let God lead their paths and let God be the one they are concerned with pleasing, not society. Teach them young that they don't have to fit in.
And when someone asks you "How Do I Look?", could you tell them they were made in the image of God and that they are beautiful?
Many blessings to you all!
